"This hairstyle you're wearing doesn't look good on you" and that is enough to cause a quarrel and she may even refuse to change it.
A social media influencer goes online and says;
"Ladies wearing so and so kind of hairstyle are irresponsible and should be ashamed of themselves" and you quickly find this same woman running to change that hairstyle immediately...
The thing is; God works in ways we cannot see and our lives are so dynamic such that a little child can give guidance to an elder, a prostitute can educate a deacon, a thief can save a policeman, a witch can save a soul.
We most times tend not to listen to certain people because of the bias we already have against them. For every word that comes to you, first thing you should do is to understand the message before choosing to accept it or not.
It is true, people buy you before they buy your product. That however should be the problem of the seller. You as the buyer should be more interested in the usefulness of a product before deciding whether to buy it or not. So many people have shouted AMEN to curses rained on them simply because it was coming from a 'Man of God' or one respected fellow.
When you place an order online and the product is being delivered to you, you are interested in your package not the dispatch rider. Think of every message that comes to you in this manner.
If you don't value the judgement of the man you're currently dating, abeg no marry am.
